Whether or not it's in your head, if it matters to you, it deserves your wife's attention. You can't force someone to feel something they don't (that is, enthusiasm), but you can encourage her by making sure that she enjoys it as much as possible. Spend as much time as she will allow exploring what gets her going. All that may require is a slight change in your routine. If these problems are truly threatening your sex life, it might be worth seeking out a good therapist--there could be underlying psychological issues behind your wife's behaviour that aren't directly related to sex.
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